Archive | July, 2015

“So, are you a dwarf then?”

8 Jul

Just a quick post, to see if I can get any opinions/thoughts on something that happened to me a couple of days ago – which I’m not sure if I’m comfortable with or not, would you be? Let me know…

So, I had just been up and down the aisles of Tesco, collecting my shopping, then I waited patiently in the queue for the checkout… said hello to the cashier, he said hello back, ‘How are you?’, ‘Fine thanks, you?’, ‘Fine’, you know, the norm. Then, as I was about half way through packing, he asks, out of the blue, “So, are you a dwarf then?”. Stunned by his direct question, I responded, “Well, yes, technically apparently so”, silence. Then, a few moments later – “So, have you been stretched out then? You’re a bit tall.”. ¬†Urm, what?!?

Whilst I’m pleased he had the courage to ask whether or not my obviously short stature is down to dwarfism, rather than just stare, I’m not sure my height/disability/surgical history is actually much of his business? Is it? Or am I being overly sensitive/defensive? I can’t decide – so, thoughts please!

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